Today is a special day, as today is the final blog that I will be posting for this site; I know I know you’re all equally sad as my posts have not only been exciting, thought-provoking, somewhat devilishly charming but tear dropping as well. Unfortunately as all things must come to an end (like a sunset in paradise, Maroon 5 quote 😉 ahaha), my time here in Volterra has reached finally reached the end point of the semester. So in expressing my last few thoughts here, I will be discussing about the three main experiences I have gained in terms of studying and living abroad.
First, in what has surprised me the most about studying here in Italy is the fact of learning and gaining the abilities of appreciating art. As Italy is known for its fine art culture and as you all know, I was never an art student and rather that jock that used to think of the subject as a complete joke. But in living here, I found that the joke was actually on me, as I had no idea what I was missing and not going to lie certainly had some of my “dumb art moments” (like thinking the Biennale was a Super bowl, football is like the gladiators or that alabaster sculpturing would be really easy). Luckily my roommates (who are all art students) quickly dispelled any “less than smart” notions I had about the art world like explaining that the Biennale is a representation for artists from all around the world to showcase their talents, that football is nothing like the gladiators (although share some traits) and that alabaster is actually really hard to work with (i.e. with the fingers breaking on the one sculpture) Thus, with all the things I have experienced here in Volterra, I think the biggest surprise that I have learned here, is a newfound gratitude and love for the arts.
In discovering what I have enjoyed the most here in Volterra, is just that unsurpassable beauty that is intertwined with a history and that warm/welcoming nature that all Italians share here. Italians I find, that they all share a desire for that life of a distinct yet dignified sense of leisure in which allows for people to not only work passionately but stop and chat with someone behind the counter, at a shop, or even someone they don’t even know on the streets. They celebrate and socialize with family and friends, whereby keeping true to the traditional styles of togetherness. A huge difference from the regular styles that Canadians value as with my experience back home, where we would eat dinner by ourselves (each in our own rooms) or head to a fast food restaurant like McDonalds for a quick fix. Therefore, to have witnessed such everyday existence was nothing less than a pleasure and a privilege, and I cannot wait to one day return and dig deeper into the culture that is Volterra.
Lastly, in describing something important that I have learned while studying abroad is just that realization of growing within myself. Not only have I gained that ability of appreciating art and the Italian culture but I have found that I have begun to emulate some of the traits of relaxation and patience as well as increasing my maturity in life. Relaxation, where I don’t find myself stressing with all the things happening in my life whereby tackling things one by one and if a few things don’t go the way I planned than that’s just the way life is. Patience, where I can’t just do things as fast and quick as possible, as life isn’t a machine that needs to keep going and going (don’t get me wrong, I still need room for improvement). And maturity (in which I thank my roommates and the professor Michelle), in not just blaming other factors for some of my problems or habits but realizing that I am the only responsible for myself and that I am the only one that can control my life.